Co-founder of the Menger Hotel and the original Menger business dynasty in San Antonio. Great-grandmother of the H&H Coffee generation of Mengers (Minnie, Gus P., R. W., T. J., L. B., A. G.) through her daughter Katarina Babette (Catherine Barbara) — or possibly through an intermediate generation depending on the resolution of the [[catherine-menger]] lineage question.

Born September 14, 1816, in Gesmold, Kingdom of Hanover (present-day Germany). Died July 3, 1887, San Antonio.

Immigration and Early Life

Arrived in San Antonio June 2, 1846 with her mother. Her mother died that same summer, leaving Mary homeless and unemployed. She operated a boarding house on Commerce Street from 1848 onward.

First marriage

Married Charles Emil Guenther, a German-immigrant butcher, in 1848. They operated the boarding house together. Guenther died 1850; Mary continued independently.

Second marriage

Married William A. Menger in 1851 — he had been her handyman and boarder. Together they had four children; three survived to adulthood: Louis William, Peter Gustav, and Katarina Babette (Catherine Barbara).

The Menger Hotel

In 1854, Mary opened a new boarding house at Blum and Bonham streets, one block east of Alamo Plaza. That year William established the Western Brewery, considered the first commercial brewery in Texas, adjacent to the boarding house. Using brewery profits, the Mengers purchased surrounding land and began hotel construction in summer 1858 — a $50,000 investment including furnishings, equipment, and stock.

The Menger Hotel opened February 1, 1859. Notable features at opening: imposing stone architecture, a “Cuban-styled” courtyard, ladies’ parlor and separate entrance. Prominent early guests included Richard King, General Robert E. Lee, and Governor Sam Houston.

Mary’s Leadership as Sole Proprietor

When William died in 1871, Mary immediately notified customers and suppliers that she would carry on as sole proprietor. Under her management:

  • The Western Brewery became the state’s largest producer, serving customers from Fort Concho to Galveston. She closed it in December 1878 as Schlitz and Busch entered the local market.
  • She purchased adjacent land in 1874 anticipating the GH&SA Railway completion.
  • By January 1878, the hotel accommodated 165 guests nightly — the largest workforce of any San Antonio business.
  • Her 1876 property valuation reached $106,410, among the highest in the city.

Hotel services expanded to include the largest sample rooms in the state, a railroad ticket office, livery with veterinary surgeon, barbershop, bar, billiard parlor, and stagecoach offices.

In 1880, she hosted President Ulysses S. Grant and First Lady for four days, including a citywide ceremonial dinner in the Colonial Dining Room.

Sale and Later Life

In fall 1881, Mary sold the hotel to John Herman Kampmann for $132,500. Successive owners maintained the Menger Hotel name — testament to her reputation. She died July 3, 1887, and was buried at the city cemetery.

Children and Lineage

Child Notes
Louis William Menger Founded the Catholic newspaper Southern Messenger
Peter Gustav Menger
Katarina Babette (Catherine Barbara) Menger Probable ancestor of the H&H coffee Mengers; see [[catherine-menger]]

The KB records Catherine Menger (wife of Dr. Rudolph Menger) as the granddaughter of William L./A. Menger. If Katarina Babette and that Catherine are the same person, the “granddaughter” designation in the KB is incorrect and should be “daughter.” If there is an intermediate generation — i.e., Katarina Babette had a daughter also named Catherine who then married Dr. Rudolph — the KB designation holds. This is an open research question. See [[william-l-menger]] for the parallel name discrepancy.

Archive Lead

The Menger Family Collection is held at the Archives of the Sisters of Charity of the Incarnate Word, San Antonio, Texas. This is a primary archive for Menger family documentation and has not yet been consulted for the H&H project.

Parallel with Minnie Menger

The parallel between Mary and her great-granddaughter Minnie Menger Hoffmann is striking: both women stepped in as sole operator of a major San Antonio business after their husbands died young. Mary ran the Menger Hotel from 1871; Minnie ran Hoffmann-Hayman Coffee from 1912.

Nancy Draves / Tim Draves Connection

The TSHA article on Mary Menger was written by Tim Draves and cites Nancy Draves as editor of A Promise Fulfilled: The Kitty Anderson Diary and Civil War Texas, 1861 (Texas Tech University Press, 2017). Nancy Draves is R. W. Menger’s granddaughter and the highest-priority living contact for this project. Tim Draves also published “Fresh Ideas: San Antonio’s William Menger and his Fascination with Innovation, 1854–1871” in Journal of South Texas 21 (Spring 2008). Both are established historians of the Menger family.

Open Questions

  • Is Katarina Babette (Catherine Barbara) Menger the same person as the [[catherine-menger]] in this project’s lineage?
  • What is the exact route from Mary/William’s children to the H&H Menger generation (Gus P., Minnie, R. W., etc.)?
  • What does the Menger Family Collection at the Archives of the Sisters of Charity of the Incarnate Word contain? Is it accessible for research?
  • What is Tim Draves’ relationship to Nancy Draves?

See Also

  • [[william-l-menger]] — husband; Menger Hotel co-founder; note “A” vs “L” middle initial discrepancy
  • [[catherine-menger]] — probable descendant; wife of Dr. Rudolph Menger; lineage question
  • [[menger-family]] — synthesis of the H&H coffee generation
  • [[minnie-menger-schlosser]] — great-granddaughter (probable); parallel sole-operator story